Helping others is one of the greatest opportunities that presents itself. Most of us experience joy when we have been able to ease the journey for some one else. But there does come a time when we have to ask ourselves if we are helping or hindering the journey another person is here to make. I have had to learn this the hard way. I was a master enabler. Perhaps this is a new term for you. It means to help another person "to a fault." I used to easily get emotionally ensnared by others whom I thought couldn't live without my direction, my protection,[...]