I go into the hospital for hip replacement surgery February 11th. My gait gives it away to onlookers. I have been hobbling for some time now. It began with a simple pain that worsened into a constant ache. It's reminiscent of my condition about a decade ago. It was my left hip then. The only time it didn't hurt was when I rode my Harley. No Harley these days and the ache is nonstop. I had thought I could postpone this surgery until December. I have workshops already committed to and didn't want any interruptions. But my body called and fortunate[...]
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8 Stop Focusing on Problems: Seek Solutions Instead. Others watch how we behave. Does it match what we say? Or are we making problems bigger than they are? Alcoholics Anonymous suggests that attraction to their program is more effective than promotion of it. The same holds true for behavior in relationships, doesn’t it? Telling others what they should do in regard to a problem will never be as effective as saying what has worked for us, or showing by our actions what is working now. We can’t change others. Ever. We can’t control opinions, behavio[...]
