Getting Unstuck isn’t so easy to do . . .
Getting Unstuck is the title of my newest book. It’s a companion to Change Your Mind and Your Life Will Follow. I loved writing both books. Actually, I’d have to say that all twenty-six books that have “called to me,” I have loved writing. There is no doubt that I am living my bliss. But Getting Unstuck, in particular, deals with the issues that continue to snag me so easily in any ordinary day. I’m certain that’s why it became a necessary book for me to tackle. I am continuing to learn and need the “instruction” I get from writing what I hear my inner voice say.
The topics covered in Getting Unstuck run the gamut from “minding my own business,” to celebrating you and your journey while doing no harm; in fact, while listening intently to God as I understand Him, in the process. We intentionally travel, side by side, as teachers, as way-showers, but not as determiners of one another’s choices. And that’s often pretty difficult to accept. My choices for you seem so sensible, after all.
Learning to let go: detaching from all that is assigned to your hula hoop, in other words; then choosing our own reactions thoughtfully, a choice which can be helped by quieting the mind so we can hear the voice of the Holy Spirit, or the God of our Understanding; are the substantive items on the agenda each one of us has been given for this life we were born to experience.
When I remember that the events in my life are not happening willy-nilly, but are unfolding just as they were orchestrated to unfold, I feel such relief. And this goes for all of the events, even those that were extremely painful. I am not in charge. I am not in charge of you or of my own path either.
What a blessing knowing this is. And yet, how often, in the blink of an eye, I forget and try to manage your affairs, make your choices, control your outcomes. If you allowed me to do that, and sometimes we do let others take charge, the result is generally eventual resentment. Maybe not immediately but it will surface in time. Mark my words. I have been there too many times.
What I share with you here and in all of the books I have written, and all the workshops I have led or will ever lead, has been based on my own experience. Always. I think sharing who we are, and who we are struggling to become, in full view of others, is the greatest of all gifts. It’s my hope every day of my life that I am making a difference, some where, some time. And listening to God, intently, will guarantee I am not too far off of the mark. Are you listening to God? He’s standing right beside you. Now. And always.
Maria
I’ve read change your mind and your life will follow….more than once. I think I need to read getting unstuck now. I am a single mom of one daughter who is all grown up…..in some respects. She lives in another state and here lately it’s been hard not having any communication. On Mother’s day 2012, very recent…I got upset and said some things (actually text because that is her preference)that she did not like. I keep trying to remind myself that there is a lesson here somewhere but it gets hard to remember when I miss not hearing from her and not hearing her voice. I keep praying that I can let go and let God but for now I keep struggling. What’s a mom to do? 🙁 Trying to get unstuck…..I guess!
karencasey
MariaI can so understand the dilemma, Maria. Even though I don’t have any children, I have been caught in similar circumstances which is why writing Getting Unstuck was good for me. And maybe it will be good for you too. It’s laid out in workbook format so you can do self-exploration and make some changes as you read. Good luck. thanks for writing.
Karen
kathy
karencaseyI am looking forward to getting your new book, Karen. I am trying to walk that fine line between detachment and a parent’s guidance with my son who is 14. The fact that parents do have responsibility to raise children but must also let them make many of their own choices is difficult and confusing for me. Can you suggest any specific resources for parents?
karencasey
kathyHi Kathy,
I appreciate that you wrote to me. And I hope the new book is helpful. Raising children is difficult because we do have to let them “fly” and guide them at the same time. I don’t know of any resource but I’d go to your local bookstore and scan the shelves in the parenting section. You will find the guidance you seek. I’m sure of it.
Good luck,
Karen